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Parag Purohit wrote:

Hi, guys —

I came across your site while looking for some help.

To give you some background, I'm a twenty-five year old Indian man who currently resides in the USA; I'm Hindu by religion.

  • I want to know if someone like me can confess his sins to a Father or a priest.

Frankly, I don't know much about the religious aspect of Christianity.  What I have found, says that I cannot, unless I am a follower of Christianity.

Let me share with you the reasoning behind my question. I believe we can all confess our sins directly to God, but sometimes we need some help and assistance. I feel that God is one universal identity. 

Although I would not be communicating with God, I would be able to confess to Father and therefore communicate with someone who is wise enough to guide me and tell me what is exactly happening in my life.

Please don't advise me to see some psychiatrist, because I know there are moral issues involved which cannot be answered by those means. It's not about sins that I have to confess, but the fact that I see myself getting morally corrupted to an extent that is just unbearable.

I hope you understand my problem and that my reasoning will not offend you in any manner.

I would be glad to hear from you.

Parag

  { Can a Hindu confess his sins to a priest, not to communicate with God, but for moral guidance? }

Eric replied:

Thanks for your question, Parag.

You are correct: you must be a Christian to formally receive the sacrament of Reconciliation. However, nothing prevents you from talking to a priest and getting some counseling and advice. The only thing the priest cannot do is provide "absolution" or (sacramental forgiveness) of sins.

I recommend finding your local Catholic parish and calling them to make an appointment to see the priest.

Explain that you are not a Christian but that you earnestly value a priest's spiritual advice. He should be able to help you, since it is moral corruption that Christ came to set us free from — to transform us so that we will do what is morally right, to give us the ability to be good.

That's the whole meaning — the Good News — of Christianity.

Eric Ewanco

Parag replied:

Hello Eric,

I am glad to hear that. At present, I live in New York City and have quite a few Churches in the area where I live.

  • Can you help me figure out how I can approach a priest?

I am not sure if I can find the information through the Internet.

  • Can I just visit a Catholic parish and speak to a priest?

Thanks,

Parag

Eric replied:

Hi, Parag —

For each county, an array of various Catholic parishes that are in that county will be displayed below along with the pastor, phone number, and website.

When you click on each parish on the left, the Google map on the right will adjust to show you the parish's location and address information.

Call them and explain that you would like to speak to a priest. He will probably have to call you back; as it's unlikely one will be immediately available. When he calls back (or answers) you might say something like,

"Hello Father, thanks for returning my phone call. I find myself in a difficult moral position, and I really need some help and advice. I am not a Christian, but I respect your judgment as a priest. I spoke to some Catholics I met, and they assured me you'd be willing to sit down with me and give me some guidance.

  • Can we schedule a time to meet?"

Side note:
For others interested in locating, in the United States, the Catholic diocese (and their parishes) nearest to them, try:

Hope this helps, and let us know how it turns out.

Eric

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